Dementia is a cruel neurodegenerative disease that slowly strips its sufferers from their connection with family, friends and the outside world. For one couple, however, not even that has been able to keep them apart, regardless of whether or not they sometimes forget who each other are.
Both Chris Warren, 72, and his wife Hilary Warren, 69, live together in Dorset, UK, where they were both diagnosed with dementia within just 2 years of each other.
Hilary struggles with such severe vascular dementia that she rarely recognises her husband.
Although the cruel condition makes it hard, she still spends every moment of the day with him, describing the connection she feels as “unwavering familiarity.”.
Husband Chris, who suffers from Alzheimer’s disease, finds it increasingly hard to handle the delirium associated with his condition, as well as what’s happening to him and his wife.
Son James Warren, 37, works as a Regional Fundraising Officer for Alzheimer’s Research UK. He comments on their relationship:
“My mum and dad are soul mates, without a doubt. If my wife and I have had the marriage they’ve got, we’ll be doing just fine.”
“My parents did everything for my two sisters and me and put themselves second, they were a team.”
Although still close, Chris adds that their conditions have worsened dramatically over the past year, with it becoming increasingly hard to warrant an emotional reaction from the pair:
“They’ve both gone downhill a lot in the past year. Trying to get a smile out of my dad these days is incredibly difficult, the only time he really smiles is when he’s with my mum.”
“They still show that they’re in love with one another. My mum is very short and my dad holds onto her forearm because he’s too tall to reach her hand, which we find very funny.”
James has raise thousands of pounds for Alzheimer’s UK during his time working as a fundraiser for them, a time during which he’s seen the heavy toll that Alzheimer’s can have on families.
Looking back at how she was, James now notices that his mum makes less and less sense when she speaks and is slowly losing her grasp of reality.
“She’ll never truly know any children that my wife Ellie and I may have. It’s such a cruel irony when i think of how much she loves kids, she worked as a teaching assistant for over 20 years. She never remembers what nice days we have had together.”
Despite a damning year for dementia cure trials, there is still hope, with many experts believing that the cure has already been found and is simply awaiting clinical trials. With any luck, those under the age of 40 will never have to experience the pain of dementia first-hand.
If you’re looking for assistance with caring for a friend or loved one, get in touch with Dementia Caring today. Although there isn’t a cure, services such as dementia day centres can offer welcome respite to give families and friends a much-needed break from full-time care.
Happy Friday HC fam! 🎉
Recently we had the pleasure of hosting a fantastic networking event at our SIL home in Liverpool for like minded providers and their teams. The open and heartfelt conversations made it truly special reminding us of the genuine connections that bring our community together.
Our Liverpool SIL home embodies the essence of what we strive for—calm, warmth, and a space that feels like home. A huge thank you to Sharmila our Home caring Liverpool director for hosting and to Karen Lorenzon from @konnect_fest our beloved “Pink-Haired Lady,” for her amazing collaboration. We’re incredibly grateful to be part of such a supportive and inspiring community.
Here’s to more meaningful gatherings and connections ahead! 🩵
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Last Friday our Home Caring Campbelltown team enjoyed a memorable day at the zoo with even the rain holding off for us! Our cherished clients joined us for a day packed with smiles, laughter and the simple joy of being together. From the moment we arrived there was a buzz of excitement as we explored the sights, enjoyed the animals and soaked up the sunshine. It was one of those days you look back on and remember fondly, where every moment felt special and full of connection.
These outings are what we here at Home Caring do best-creating memories and sharing experiences that add quality to life. We're your trusted locals taking you beyond the everyday, bringing a sense of adventure and crafting experiences that leave a lasting impact. Whether it's a day at the zoo or simply a stroll in the park we're here to make each day brighter, building connections and making every moment count for our clients 🩵
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Happy Sunday HC fam! Today we’re sending all our love to the incredible grandparents who bring so much warmth, wisdom and joy into our lives. On National Grandparents Day we celebrate your boundless love, the life lessons you’ve passed down and the countless ways you’ve enriched our families and communities. Your presence lights up every room and your stories and laughter are treasures we hold dear.
Here at Home Caring we honour your dedication, resilience and the invaluable role you play in shaping our world. We’re grateful for everything you’ve given to those around you and today, we hope you feel the love and admiration you so richly deserve. Thank you for being such a blessing in our lives – here’s to you and all the special moments you’ve made unforgettable! Happy National Grandparents Day! 🩵
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Hidden or Invisible Disabilities Week 20-26th of October is a timely reminder that disabilities aren’t always visible. Here at Home Caring we understand that many people live with unseen challenges from neurological and cognitive to sensory and processing difficulties. Our team is committed to approaching each interaction with empathy and a readiness to support ensuring that individuals receive the patience and respect they need regardless of their unique needs or preferences.
A simple tool to discreetly share that someone may need extra time or assistance is the Hidden Disability Sunflower available as a lanyard, pin or wristband. This symbol helps to raise awareness in public spaces signaling to others that understanding and support are appreciated. If you or someone you know could benefit from this, you can get one at buff.ly/3MAbhoH. We wholeheartedly embrace this initiative striving to create a welcoming world for everyone whether their challenges are visible or hidden 🩵
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